I’ve been doing Dry January and I have to say up until this week I’ve found it relatively easy. Not so last night. It’s been a long week of early starts, training, busy days, doing kiddie things and just stuff.
I felt tired last night, Simon had opened a nice bottle of red, I’d cooked a lovely juicy steak with a big salad with Simon’s home-made salad dressing and, as I sat down & felt the stresses of the week melt away, I really wanted a glass of that wine. I didn’t, but it did make me think, have I noticed any differences since being dry?
Well the answer is yes.
1) I sleep more deeply. If I drink even a couple of glasses of wine I fall asleep quickly but inevitably wake up at around 3am and find it difficult to fall back to sleep. My mind starts whirring & whizzing here & there, thoughts, images, conversations, songs, people, children, training, shop, work. It’s really distracting and although I have developed my own coping mechanisms to get back to sleep again I notice if the following day. Being dry, I fall asleep quickly and unless kids dictate otherwise, I stay asleep. I was woken at 7 this morning by the kids slamming open the door and yes I still felt a little tired BUT I didn’t have a slight headache or feel drowsy & groggy. This must be a good thing.
2) I don’t pick at food as the evening progresses. I don’t know what it is about alcohol but if I do drink then I feel the need to eat more which if you’re trying to loose weight isn’t really helpful. Anything I eat pretty much after 8pm I can’t burn off so it just stays and makes itself at home on me.
3) I have the largest zit on my face ever!! I’m lucky I rarely get zits so when I do as far as I’m concerned it’s like a beacon on my face. Is this all the ‘bad stuff’ coming out?
4) My runs in the morning have been a little more springy if that makes sense.
So I’m just hoping that I can carry on for the next two weeks, even though I have a big family event to go to today. I also hope that from February I make it normal NOT to have any alcohol in the evening rather than to immediately head for the fridge, corkscrew in one hand and glass in the other.
Wish me luck!
Useful Link: http://www.dryjanuary.org.uk/
Footnote.
Whilst writing this blog I Googled alcohol and it’s affects on sleep and then stumbled on something that I’m shocked at but not surprised of. Drunkorexia. This is something that is more prevalent in young women, they actively skip a meal in favour of alcohol so as not to double up on the calories and therefore loose weight. This is shocking on so many levels. Where are the nutrients to help their bodies function properly coming from? At what point do they consider this to be a good decision? What impact will this have long-term on their bodies internally & externally & their minds? Dietitians now think there is a direct link between binge drinking and anorexia Why am I not really shocked by this? Is this because I’ve seen this type of calorie controlling in people that I’ve worked with over the last 20 years? Whatever, this is a big topic and deserves respect & time to educate young people…
Useful Link: https://www.drinkaware.co.uk/understand-your-drinking/is-your-drinking-a-problem/are-you-a-drunkorexic
I just want to leave you with this thought…
There are so many pressures on young women these days to be stick thin, the celebrity role models that they choose to idolise demonstrate a completely unrealistic & mostly unworkable lifestyle for us mere mortals. The images we are bombarded with on a daily basis are flawless and completely unachieveable – even the models themselves don’t look like themselves. Photoshop has a lot to answer for. Cindy Crawford once said ‘I wish i looked like Cindy Crawford’.
If Cindy wants this, then what hope do normal, everyday young women have and, more importantly for me, how do I deal with this as my own daughter grows up and becomes self aware to her body, to those around her and the images she will see in magazines, newspapers & TV?